National Family Mediation Services England

Children caught in the middle of divorce

Helping Children Through Divorce with National Family Mediation Service England

For children, divorce is an unsettling and often devastating life experience. It can signify the lack of a pretty future.

Divorce is a calamity that stands to shape and reshape children’s lives and change their perception of the world.

As a parent, your priority should be to make the process and its effects less painful for your kids.

The National Family Mediation team offers professional mediation services that can help you and your children cope with divorce and its consequences.

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Child Inclusive Mediation

Child Inclusive Mediation is a specialised form of mediation that priorities the voices and perspectives of children in the decision-making process. The primary goal is to create an environment where children feel heard and their needs are considered when formulating parenting plans and other arrangements.

Components of Child Inclusive Mediation:

1. Child-Centered Communication:

In CIM, a skilled mediator engages with children in a safe and neutral setting. Through age-appropriate discussions, children are encouraged to express their thoughts, feelings, and concerns about the divorce. This process allows parents and mediators to gain valuable insights into the child’s perspective.

2. Empowering Children:

CIM empowers children by acknowledging their agency in the decisions that will impact their lives. By including them in the conversation, children feel a sense of validation and importance in the decision-making process.

3. Collaborative Decision-Making:

The insights gathered through CIM contribute to collaborative decision-making. Parents, informed by the perspectives of their children, can work towards agreements that prioritize the well-being of their children. This often leads to more sustainable and mutually beneficial parenting plans.

Benefits of Child Inclusive Mediation:

1. Emotional Support for Children:

Divorce can be emotionally overwhelming for children. CIM provides a platform for them to express their feelings and concerns, helping them navigate the emotional challenges associated with the separation of their parents.

2. Informed Decision-Making:

Including children in the mediation process ensures that decisions are informed by their needs and preferences. This approach fosters a sense of fairness and helps create arrangements that are more likely to be accepted and respected by all parties involved.

3. Enhanced Co-Parenting Communication:

CIM encourages open communication between parents and enhances their understanding of their children’s needs. This improved communication can lay the foundation for effective co-parenting after the divorce, promoting a supportive environment for the children.

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